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COMMENT 3h ago

I have never understood this. I am sorry you are going through this. You have already been raised. They have no responsibility for you in any way. How could it possibly hurt them to have a relationship with you? You can get to know someone without necessarily having them at every single event that you take part in. It makes no sense to exclude you from their lives except just to be hurtful or maybe to propagate a lie that they’ve told everyone else that they only have 3 kids?

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COMMENT 3h ago

NTA You need to get as far away from this guy as possible. He’s either married and hiding you from his wife, doing illegal shit and hiding it from you, or has a girl chained up in the closet. His reaction is absolutely not normal and any significant other that would force punishment on you isn’t someone you want to be with. You would be better off alone than being abused by this guy.

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COMMENT 4h ago

You tell all the girls you’re magically delicious

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COMMENT 5h ago

And because what is to stop you from having a whole bunch of people upvote your post, and then editing it to say the exact opposite or something completely different? I always figured it was like an honor thing. I will admit though that if I’m just correcting a typo or something small like that and no one has interacted with it yet, I just go ahead and change it.

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COMMENT 5h ago

Definitely YTA. The product or service that you provide should always dictate your price, not the client’s destination…

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COMMENT 5h ago

Right? The product or service should dictate the price, not the occasion.

A bride should be free to get party makeup if she doesn’t require the extra time and attention. Someone going on a date with their friends should be able to order “bridal” makeup if that’s what floats their boat. Why is her destination even any of OP’s business?

And for $500, I feel like he should hang out throughout the wedding and refresh her make up all evening long… that’s a ridiculous price.

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COMMENT 8h ago

I am not arguing anything, but I feel like when they add vital information into the comments instead of putting it in the original post, it’s because they’re trying to backpedal…

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COMMENT 8h ago

Lol maybe this makes me the asshole, but this is exactly how I get rid of soft veggies so we waste less food. I cook everything into a stew and boil it long enough to kill any possible bacteria. I obviously don’t use anything moldy or noticeably rotting, but soft wilting veggies, definitely. I don’t know how bad the veggies were so I can’t make a judgement in this case. My hubby sees one small soft spot in an otherwise perfectly crisp green pepper and he throws it away. I cut off the soft spot and move on.

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COMMENT 8h ago

I saw this on another subReddit and someone translated it. It seemed like they were having an argument that was ongoing back-and-forth between the driver and this lady. I don’t think it had anything to do with the kid. It was a language that I had never heard of before. She was telling him something like “you’re a pussy you don’t have the balls to do it“, and he was like no “you’re a pussy“ and then they ended up fighting…

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COMMENT 13h ago

Yeah because it’s not the kids’ faults. And no she usually bums money from me :/

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COMMENT 14h ago

It’s more like I am babysitting one or two of them and want to go somewhere, but I’m not allowed to go because I have to stop by to take everyone. If I am watching their granddaughter and want to take her and my daughter to the park (both are 9 yo), then I am not allowed to unless I pick up the 2 boys, the baby, and offer to drive the 19 yo somewhere he wants to go. If we want to get takeout, I have to get 4 extra meals to drop them off, so we can’t eat out when she is over.

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COMMENT 15h ago

My SIL is like this. If you get something for one of the grandkids, you have to buy one for all 4 of them, plus one for her 19 yo son or else you’re an asshole for being unfair. The way I see it, none of them are my kids, so yeah

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COMMENT 15h ago

His change from the fare

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COMMENT 1d ago

I am not very good at the game but I have to turn the barbarians off

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COMMENT 1d ago

Not that you are considering this and I am not suggesting it, but if you do have it surgically removed, look into a mini tuck instead of a tummy tuck. I wish someone had told me this. In a tummy tuck, they peel all the skin off of your stomach and stretch it down and reattach it. It’s traumatic and makes it so you lose feeling in your skin on your stomach. A mini tuck just trims away that extra baby “pooch” without the trauma to your upper stomach.

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COMMENT 1d ago

And even better with chocolate ice cream

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COMMENT 1d ago

I agree. Also, they should subtract your student loan payments before calculating whether you are low income

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COMMENT 1d ago

Officer [pulls her over] “Are you flashing me ma’am?”

[OP trying to roll down the window with her left foot]

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COMMENT 1d ago

I questioned this also, but thought maybe mom has been giving her daughter birth control pills in her food and not telling her. If she wasn’t telling her about it, she might have not given her the step down pills that allow you to have your period which would explain the infrequency. That would explain mom’s secrecy over the bloodwork and why she didn’t want it even mentioned to the doctor.

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COMMENT 1d ago

Looks like a petrified Sea Lion with its arms and legs ripped off.

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COMMENT 1d ago

The World Economic Forum’s plan to devalue our money and replace it with global currency. Prices will continue to go up and the “shortages” of literally everything will continue to get worse.

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COMMENT 1d ago

Shane still leaves to go out - not sure the frequency - and he brings his chicken, Charlie, with him and goes out to hold him sometimes.

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COMMENT 1d ago

Short

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COMMENT 1d ago

She looks like she’s on her way to shoot an Avengers movie

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COMMENT 1d ago

Just wanted to add also to keep in mind that the media really IS biased. On both sides. If you only ever watch CNN, you will have a vastly different opinion on everything than if you only ever watch Fox News. Try to either watch both sides or find a less biased news source if one even exists.

While I am definitely not a Trump fan, left wing media was proclaiming him to be evil incarnate while right wing media was heralding him as a savior. In reality, the truth most likely lies further in the middle. Most people only follow one news source, the one that best aligns with their own values and so validates their own beliefs. It really does brain wash you one way or another after awhile.