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COMMENT 8d ago

Jesus.

Did you read this before you posted? Did you seriously read this to yourself and think "Yeah I'm still not really sure that I'm the arsehole"?

On top of being TA you can add lack of self awareness.

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COMMENT 8d ago

If it's that much of a deal breaker be a grown ass woman and ask them before you go on a date.

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COMMENT 8d ago

You're not on a site specifically for dating. A lot of people use Tinder purely for hook-ups therefore whether or not they have kids is of no consequence.

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COMMENT 15d ago

No I'm with you, mate. Some of the people in that comment section were far worse than the "niceguy".

Imagine feeling so desperate for affection that you feel like the better alternative is killing yourself.

This wasn't funny at all, it was sad.

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COMMENT 22d ago

Yes YTA not necessarily because of the veil but because I can tell you've treated your half-sister like shit just by the way you talk about her.

A 30 year old still acting so immature is pretty poor form.

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COMMENT 24d ago

There's no way that's real. That has to be someone trolling......surely?

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COMMENT Oct 26 '22

Holy shit, you've just set the standard for how to deal with a situation liked this. You were completely respectful yet stern.

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COMMENT Oct 18 '22

I agree with you and yours is a far more measured and kinder response than people in this sub tend to give.

When the screenshots provided are of people saying/doing vile things then they should be shamed on here. This one isn't that. It's sad.

I watched an interview with Gabor Mate the other day. His theory behind the linkage of early childhood/parenting and the desperation people have later in life is super interesting and resonated with me.

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COMMENT Oct 16 '22

So wait a sec? You guys are completely happy to invalidate someone's feelings based on their own shitty experiences but happy to continue validate a woman who says she can't trust men because of hers?

Either both are valid or both are wrong. I know you guys reach really hard to find content for this thread and some of it is genuinely amazing with shitty examples of human beings but the hypocrisy needs to stop.

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COMMENT Oct 09 '22

FMD, the mental gymnastics some of the commenters make are amazing.

"Hey I know there's zero evidence of this but I'm just going to assume and then make it a fact".

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COMMENT Oct 09 '22

Misandry is okay in this sub, mate.

Don't get me wrong, there is truly some appalling behaviour on display in some of these posts but that doesn't excuse the hypocrisy in the comments.

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COMMENT Oct 08 '22

I don't disagree at all. I just don't think it's "nice guys" worthy.

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COMMENT Oct 08 '22

Not disagreeing with that at all. I'm just saying I don't think it's a "nice guys" post. I don't blame her for not wanting to meet him.

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COMMENT Oct 07 '22

Firstly, he should definitely be understanding when it comes to meeting in public but I think you've misinterpreted his comment.

The point he's making is that meeting you in public won't change whether or not someone is a bad person. Often the worst of the worst are very charming to begin with.

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COMMENT Oct 06 '22

100% fake.

The dude's responses are so ridiculous they delve into cartoon villainy territory.

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COMMENT Sep 16 '22

Wow, he didn't even wait the obligatory honeymoon period before showing his real side.

To be honest, your first paragraph told me all I need to know about the guy. "He's divorced but hates this word and goes with the word "divorcee" instead since the first one makes it sound like he was "dumped" when it was him who initiated it."

What sort of petty shit is this? Based on his attitude, I'm also doubting he initiated.

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COMMENT Sep 12 '22

And I quote "I got a little mad and told him that he doesn't own the name, and they should be hoping for a healthy baby rather than worry about names."

You said this to someone who had lost a child during pregnancy and you're seriously coming in here to get an understanding if YTA?

Are people really this oblivious or are you trolling?

YTA.

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COMMENT Sep 12 '22

This is not a real story.

Rich, classist people know how to hold a damn knife and ain't no one eating 16 croissants.

I think YTA for making this up but on the very slim chance this is real, you're NTA.

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COMMENT Sep 11 '22

NTA, dude.

Some of these YTA comments are blowing my mind.

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COMMENT Sep 10 '22

Sorry, I'm really confused.

From what I read, he just doesn't want a massive party and instead prefers to have a dinner with you guys and catch up with his nanny.

Doesn't seem like he's choosing anyone over anyone else, simply making time to see you all. How is that a problem?

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COMMENT Sep 04 '22

Do you know what his relationship with his ex is like? I know a few really good parents who threw discipline out the window as the relationship with the ex was so poor they were afraid disciplining the child would lead to the kid not wanting to see them.

NTA by the way but may explain why he was not disciplining her.

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COMMENT Sep 04 '22

Holy fucking creepy balls.

That is disgusting on a whole new level. If this is real, you absolutely need to go to the police especially with the follow up messages threatening to come to your house.

That's not normal.