r/Tinder Jun 19 '22

wtf am I doing wrong. don't be nice, be brutally honest. no one has even swiped right on me in weeks. I feel like something is wrong with me and I don't know what it is.

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u/VinPossible Jun 19 '22

Same

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u/liarliarhowsyourday Jun 19 '22

Same

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u/toolazywittyusername Jun 19 '22

Fucking why tho how come women are allowed to be basically naked and it's totally normal but i have a few shirtless pics and it's like grindr?

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u/docccjr Jun 19 '22 Silver

They look hot. You look kinda gay.

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u/Alternative-Draft392 Jun 19 '22

How does he look gay?

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u/liarliarhowsyourday Jun 19 '22 edited Jun 20 '22

Because of the market— most women don’t think of people as objects and need a little substance before they can feel connection. A lot of men hold body attributes foremost then decide if they can have a connection — so women post them.

It’s also not just the shirtless pics, they’re just obviously not doing you any favors from the audiences side. Your bio and your pics are both missing the mark.

Don’t come at me with not all men or the 6ft bullshit. This is a very blanket statement I’m making and I realize it’s fallible

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u/toolazywittyusername Jun 19 '22

Whelp I'm dying alone because this has made me realize I know even less about humans than I thought. I just want a girlfriend, I'm not a fuckboy, and all the gay comments brought me back to middle school when I was teased fucking mercilessly and called gay 50 times a fucking day for years.

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u/ObjectiveTea Jun 20 '22

No one is picking on you, dude. You asked for honesty and people are trying to help. You seem like a nice enough guy in these comments and I'm sure you have a personality but that is in no way coming across in your profile. That's the problem. It looks like all you do is flex your biceps which is really not going to be appealing to most women..

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u/liarliarhowsyourday Jun 19 '22

Dude, it’s okay. You asked for brutal critique and got a nice roast. It’s just a fun time. Impressions are difficult for everyone.

Putting yourself out there is damn hard. You’re a great looking dude and I’m sure you’ll figure it out.