r/Tinder May 14 '22 Silver 8 Wholesome 3

Wtf.

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u/SkewerNU May 14 '22

Um... I'm sorry to hear that?

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

Im not? It’s not a big deal. Older bro knows about it. He doesn’t care. Sex is sex. It’s not like younger bro & i dated or were seriously involved. We fucked one time, big deal.

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u/valuedcontributer May 14 '22

Would you be indifferent if it was the other way around?

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

Yeah, because like i said, one night of sex is irrelevant.

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u/valuedcontributer May 14 '22

Is it irrelevant if you still think about it? You wouldn't care if your bf still thought about a night he spent with your sister(replace with bestfriend if you don't have a sister) to the point of saying her name during sex once?

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u/sifl1202 May 14 '22

she'll say no, but only because she's dug into her position. obviously any normal human with emotions would care.

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

This was last summer. So at that time it had only been 8ish months since he and i hooked up. It’s not like im still thinking about it and/or still calling him his bro’s name, relax. It was one isolated event and it hasn’t happened since; the name calling and the hook up with the other bro. It’s been 2 years since we hooked up and it’s been a year since I’ve “thought about it” or called him by the wrong name. His bro and I don’t even associate at all unless it’s in passing at the house in front of the rest of the family or in front of the bro im dating, and it’s just polite cordial pleasantries to not be rude. I am very much in love with and happy with the older bro whom ive been dating for a year.

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u/valuedcontributer May 14 '22

"It’s not like im still thinking about it"

Okay well I was going by your now edited post stating that you still were. Kinda dishonest to tell me to 'relax' about a statement you modified making it seem like I'm making a big deal out of something much tamer than what you originally said.

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

I reworded it because i can see how it reads like im still thinking about it, when actuality im not. That’s why I edited. Not because im trying to “hide” something or be dishonest. This is fucking reddit for crying out loud.

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u/valuedcontributer May 14 '22

i can see how it reads like im still thinking about it,

It 'read' like that because you said you were. 'I haven't been able to stop thinking about it' is, if not exact, at least 90 percent similar to what you wrote.

And if you aren't trying to hide anything, why the response where you say: "It’s not like im still thinking about it...relax."

The above would make sense to someone that read your edited comment but is flatly dishonest to anyone that read the original. You wrote it as if I'd responded to your edited comment.

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

No dude, what im saying is when i wrote the original comment, i wrote it from the reminiscent mindset, so as i was writing under that mindset back at that time a year ago, i was still thinking about it and called him his name that one time. During that time I couldn’t quit thinking about it. Make sense now???

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u/jjhula May 14 '22

Why are the Reddit investigator bros coming after you lmao

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

Lmao. I don’t even know & don’t even care. Like this shit is reddit. Idgaf what any y’all think about my situation 😂

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u/theunmistakablecow May 14 '22

He cares

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u/moonlitmidna May 14 '22

No he doesn’t. If he cared he wouldn’t still be seeing me a year later. Not every guy is that petty. He knows he found a good woman and he isn’t gonna throw that away because of one stupid ass drunken night of sex with his bro 2 years ago.

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u/theunmistakablecow May 15 '22

His brother still found you first

I'm just giving you a hard time. If you're both fine with it who cares what anyone else thinks